Structured Authentic Game
A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know, a...
View ArticleJunior Is A Flirt
Keep your infant daughters away from my kid. Actually, check that. Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him. Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka “Micky Mac”) is a serious flirt. Already. At the ripe old age of...
View ArticleAlcohol-Free Authenticity — Improve Your Success With Women When Sober
When you are out on the town having a good time with your friends and talking to girls, it may be so tempting to have a few drinks. Perhaps, drinking allows you to relax, get you out of your head,...
View ArticleThe Guide To Speed Dating Success
(This post originated as a correspondence on speed dating between two X&Y team members. I have speed-dated on and off for approximately two years and observed the curious dynamic involved. I have...
View ArticleX & Y On The Fly #41 — Movie Moments
OK, the latest X & Y On The Fly has finally hit the street. This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite “movie moments”. And we’re not talking about action-adventure “moments”, Star...
View ArticleThe Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”
Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women. Now sure, having some guys...
View ArticleThe Master Plan Is LIVE
Today is the day everything changes. Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to “soften our demeanor”, “be nice” and otherwise fall in line with modern “feminized” culture. The...
View ArticleLetter From A Reader: Hugging, Holding Hands, And That’s It [Video]
Recently I received an e-mail from Matt, who has been hanging out with a woman who seems interested in hugging and holding hands…but not a whole lot more than that, if anything. Apparently, based on...
View ArticlePresence Vs. Attention = Happy Women Everywhere
Having spent the last year of my life on entrepreneurial pursuits, I’ve learned some hard lessons about keeping a woman happy. At the height of my working tirades I’d get a call from my girlfriend at...
View ArticlePics From The Video Shoot For The Man’s Approach
As you may already know, the new program for guys who want to approach and meet high quality women, attract them and make plans with them is called The Man’s Approach. Based on the tremendous amount of...
View ArticleThree Little Words (No…Not THOSE Three Little Words)
It was my oldest daughter who started it. Back when she was about two she started saying, “I like you” to me. Of course, we told her we loved her all the time. But she was the one to take the...
View ArticleIf It’s Not Fast, It’s Only Half-Fast: 5 1/2 Situations With Women That Call...
Go ahead. Say the first part of the subject line out loud. Do it briskly enough so you can hear what’s REALLY being said. In other words, don’t give it a half-fast effort. So gentlemen, what does a...
View Article7 Major Clues You’re Getting Better With Women
Hey, there’s a lot of talk about how to improve your skills with women. But how do you know when you’ve actually ARRIVED? On the surface, that seems like a silly question. I mean, you’re either...
View ArticleWhy Approaching Women Is So Puzzling
We’ve done ourselves a disservice by assuming that each situation where we’re approaching a woman is going to be identical to any other. But who can really blame us? It seems as if everything we’ve...
View ArticleThe Lost Art Of Writing Love Letters
I recently got a call from a guy who couldn’t wait to share his latest success story with me. Suddenly, his new girlfriend was more adoring and affectionate than ever, which boosted his confidence to...
View Article6 Incredibly Hot Things To Say When She Casually Brings Up Sex
It’s such a shame, really. Sometime back in the pickup artist era it was decided that whenever women casually bring up sex during first date conversation—or friendly conversation, even—it must be...
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