The Chick Whisperer #18 — Defining Relationships And Making Solid Decisions
I finally got my act together and released Episode #18 of The Chick Whisperer podcast last night. This must mean we’re “legal”. Were things only that uncomplicated…LOL My co-host for this one is my...
View ArticleLose The Exclamation Point…And Be Proud [Video]
OK gentlemen, it’s time for another video blog. And this time I’m going to talk about pickup strategy. Yes, even in the world of character-based seduction it’s absolutely still crucial to have game...
View ArticlePhone Game: Golden Input From A Woman
It’s no secret that we’ve been talking a lot about “phone game” around here recently. Not only is the latest Power Session devoted to it, the latest X & Y Communications newsletter was also. In...
View ArticleThe Chick Whisperer #19–”What Do I Do Next?”
For the latest episode, I got the newest VIRTUOSITY co-conspirator, Cory Skyy, in on the game. Cory’s ideas pretty much blow everyone away who takes time to listen to what he’s got to say. This is for...
View ArticleOnline Dating: The Case For Instant Messaging
Some guys believe that instant messaging is to be avoided at all costs when beginning to talk to women we meet online. I understand that sentiment to some degree, based on the logic that it’s always a...
View ArticleA Woman’ Point Of View On Flirting [Guest Blog]
Meet Terry MacDonald. She’s a new friend of ours and like most “lady gurus” whom we consider to be our favorites, she is all about the dating success of both women AND men. Our list is a short one, and...
View ArticleKino That Works, And The Women Who Love You For Getting It Right
Don’t fall off your chair when I tell you what I’m about to say. But you might indeed want to sit down for this nonetheless. Here it is. I’m going to be teaching more about “kino” from now on. In the...
View ArticleHow To Date Taller Women
I’ve been getting numerous requests for some info on this topic lately. And I’ll tell you, what was supposed to have been a blog post grew into a full-scale Special Report. There has not been nearly...
View ArticleOne Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net
Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction. For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the wide...
View Article“And That’s Why I Don’t Eat Shrimp”
Are you an NBA fan? If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade. Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck inanely...
View ArticleDiscomfort and Awareness: A Tale of Two Dates
Consider two separate dates with two different women: Scenario 1: It was a gorgeous Wednesday before a long weekend. I awoke from a full night’s sleep ready to conquer the world by lunch, and cure...
View ArticleHow To Approach Naturally Without Fear
I always wondered how to approach and start a conversation with the attractive women I would meet on the street, in a supermarket, or in a coffee shop. At first, I felt that initial excitement arising...
View ArticleHow To Deserve What You Want By Being Yourself
The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community. But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept? See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I...
View ArticleRejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]
Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really. These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of these...
View ArticleRejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]
As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night. One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right. I...
View ArticleThree Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out
In today’s post I’m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out. First, I recommend getting some friends/wingmen who...
View ArticleMake Your Authentic Voice Heard
As I was driving home a couple of days ago thinking about writing this post, I got a message from my friend that sounded a bit new-agey but perfectly summarised some of my ideas on how we can relate to...
View ArticleThundercat’s BootyCast
How’s it going everyone? Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction Community stuff because this is the...
View ArticleStructured Authentic Game
A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know, a...
View ArticleJunior Is A Flirt
Keep your infant daughters away from my kid. Actually, check that. Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him. Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka “Micky Mac”) is a serious flirt. Already. At the ripe old age of...
View ArticleAlcohol-Free Authenticity — Improve Your Success With Women When Sober
When you are out on the town having a good time with your friends and talking to girls, it may be so tempting to have a few drinks. Perhaps, drinking allows you to relax, get you out of your head,...
View ArticleThe Guide To Speed Dating Success
(This post originated as a correspondence on speed dating between two X&Y team members. I have speed-dated on and off for approximately two years and observed the curious dynamic involved. I have...
View ArticleX & Y On The Fly #41 — Movie Moments
OK, the latest X & Y On The Fly has finally hit the street. This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite “movie moments”. And we’re not talking about action-adventure “moments”, Star...
View ArticleThe Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”
Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women. Now sure, having some guys...
View ArticleThe Master Plan Is LIVE
Today is the day everything changes. Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to “soften our demeanor”, “be nice” and otherwise fall in line with modern “feminized” culture. The...
View ArticleLetter From A Reader: Hugging, Holding Hands, And That’s It [Video]
Recently I received an e-mail from Matt, who has been hanging out with a woman who seems interested in hugging and holding hands…but not a whole lot more than that, if anything. Apparently, based on...
View ArticlePresence Vs. Attention = Happy Women Everywhere
Having spent the last year of my life on entrepreneurial pursuits, I’ve learned some hard lessons about keeping a woman happy. At the height of my working tirades I’d get a call from my girlfriend at...
View ArticlePics From The Video Shoot For The Man’s Approach
As you may already know, the new program for guys who want to approach and meet high quality women, attract them and make plans with them is called The Man’s Approach. Based on the tremendous amount of...
View ArticleThree Little Words (No…Not THOSE Three Little Words)
It was my oldest daughter who started it. Back when she was about two she started saying, “I like you” to me. Of course, we told her we loved her all the time. But she was the one to take the...
View ArticleIf It’s Not Fast, It’s Only Half-Fast: 5 1/2 Situations With Women That Call...
Go ahead. Say the first part of the subject line out loud. Do it briskly enough so you can hear what’s REALLY being said. In other words, don’t give it a half-fast effort. So gentlemen, what does a...
View Article7 Major Clues You’re Getting Better With Women
Hey, there’s a lot of talk about how to improve your skills with women. But how do you know when you’ve actually ARRIVED? On the surface, that seems like a silly question. I mean, you’re either...
View ArticleWhy Approaching Women Is So Puzzling
We’ve done ourselves a disservice by assuming that each situation where we’re approaching a woman is going to be identical to any other. But who can really blame us? It seems as if everything we’ve...
View ArticleThe Lost Art Of Writing Love Letters
I recently got a call from a guy who couldn’t wait to share his latest success story with me. Suddenly, his new girlfriend was more adoring and affectionate than ever, which boosted his confidence to...
View Article6 Incredibly Hot Things To Say When She Casually Brings Up Sex
It’s such a shame, really. Sometime back in the pickup artist era it was decided that whenever women casually bring up sex during first date conversation—or friendly conversation, even—it must be...
View ArticleWhat Have We Replaced The Seduction Community With?
What’s truly bizarre to me is guys who have been working on getting better with women for less than, say, five years (therefore, the vast majority) have probably never even heard of The Seduction...
View Article15 Things No Man Should EVER Say
Most of my online research on the subject du jour uncovered articles by angry women whose baseline vitriol toward men was barely concealed under the surface. Predictably, the vast majority were...
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